How To Work On Being More Present
So your goal seems simple enough, to be more present. But, you’re having a hard time achieving this goal on your own. For a client whose goal is to work on being more present, therapists will often challenge their client to complete assignments that focus on cultivating mindfulness, grounding techniques, and activities that enhance awareness of the present moment. These therapeutic assignments aim to build skills that help the client stay engaged in the here and now, reduce distractions, and develop a deeper connection to their thoughts, feelings, and environment. The accountability that a therapist provides may be that push that you need to actually follow through with some of these techniques and activities. Below are some effective treatment plan assignments:
1. Mindfulness Practices
Mindful Breathing: Practice deep, focused breathing for 5–10 minutes daily. Encourage the client to notice the sensation of the breath entering and leaving their body.
Body Scan Meditation: Spend 10–15 minutes scanning the body for tension or sensations, bringing awareness to each area without judgment.
Mindfulness Apps: Use apps like Calm, Headspace, or Insight Timer to guide daily mindfulness exercises.
2. Grounding Techniques
5-4-3-2-1 Technique: Engage the five senses to anchor attention to the present moment (e.g., name five things you see, four you hear, etc.).
Grounding Objects: Carry a small object (like a smooth stone) and focus on its texture and weight whenever feeling distracted or overwhelmed.
3. Journaling Assignments
Mindful Moments Journal: Write about one moment each day when they felt fully present. What were they doing, feeling, or thinking?
Gratitude Journaling: List three things they are grateful for at the end of each day to shift focus to the present blessings.
Stream-of-Consciousness Writing: Set a timer for 10 minutes and write whatever comes to mind without filtering, observing the flow of thoughts.
4. Behavioral Experiments
Single-Tasking: Commit to completing one task at a time, such as eating a meal without distractions or focusing entirely on a work task.
Tech-Free Time: Set aside 30 minutes to an hour daily to disconnect from devices and focus on being present with themselves or loved ones.
5. Sensory Awareness Exercises
Mindful Eating: Choose a snack or meal and eat it slowly, paying attention to the taste, texture, smell, and sensation.
Nature Walks: Go for a walk and focus on the sounds, sights, and smells of the environment.
Mindful Showering: Encourage the client to notice the temperature, water pressure, and sensations during a shower.
6. Cognitive Assignments
Thought Monitoring: Track when their mind wanders and bring it back to the present. Reflect on patterns and triggers for distraction.
Reframing Questions: Ask, “What is happening right now?” or “How can I fully engage with this moment?” during stressful or distracting times.
7. Creative Activities
Art or Crafting: Engage in drawing, painting, knitting, or other creative activities that require focus on the present process.
Photography Assignment: Take photos of things that catch their attention during the day, focusing on details they might usually overlook.
8. Physical Activities
Yoga or Tai Chi: Practice physical movements that emphasize awareness of the body and breath.
Mindful Stretching: Spend a few minutes each day stretching, focusing on the sensations in the muscles and joints.
Walking Meditation: Walk slowly and intentionally, focusing on each step, the ground beneath their feet, and their breathing.
9. Gratitude and Connection
Daily Gratitude Practice: Write or verbally express gratitude for small, everyday moments to anchor their awareness in the present.
Meaningful Conversations: Practice active listening in conversations, focusing entirely on the other person without planning responses.
10. Psychoeducation and Reflection
Psychoeducation on Mindfulness: Provide resources (e.g., articles, videos) on the benefits of being present and mindfulness.
Reflection Prompts: After completing activities, ask the client to reflect: What did they notice about themselves or their environment? What made the activity challenging or enjoyable?
11. Homework to Monitor Progress
Mindfulness Tracker: Create a habit tracker for daily mindfulness practices, noting successes and challenges.
Progress Reflection: Write weekly about how being more present has impacted their mood, relationships, or overall well-being.
These assignments are flexible and can be tailored to the client’s preferences and lifestyle. Consistent practice will help the client internalize mindfulness as a habit and experience its benefits in everyday life.
Contact Bee Blissful today for more information on how a therapist therapist can help you work on being more present.
